We were I court again last Friday. It was not good. Not at all good. Legally there seems nothing can be done to find out what happened in the foster home. I found out children are still being placed there.
My son’s ad litem told us point blank she would object to us asking the previous foster parents what really occurred in their home – did my son rape those boy(s)? We contacted our lawyer who told us we waited too long to retain her. Final hearing is next week,not in March as we were once told.
We were also told by the ad litem that Youngest wants to return to foster care and age out. It would be nice to hear that from him ourselves.
That is also something else that probably will not happen.
Our plan is to basicly give up. He cannot come home. We believe he did rape with the wooden cross. Too many people are covering up instead of giving us any answers. We are now praying we will not have to pay child support on top of everything else.
On February 5th our son will have had our name for three years.
On January 30th we will cease to be his parents.
There is of course much more than I am writing here.
When I am a bit more emotionally strong I will share just how devistated we are.
Our son needs residential treatment.
He is placed in a family home and attending public school.
He has had no consequenses for his actions – felonies.
His victims have received no help.
The adults who allowed/encouraged the rape have had no consequences. They still have children being placed in their home.
So,you want to adopt a hurt child?
So did we.
I am/We are so sorry love. Prayers are coming from this end.
Love!